We love honest!!
Dating profiles are a lot like resumes, most people don’t like writing about themselves. Most people make the mistake of thinking that dating profiles are to have someone get to know you more, your dating profile should sell you.
Most of the time, there is a lot of mis-information given in the answers to the questions or categories on profiles. We all want our soul mate and get out of the dating part as quickly as possible.
People have the best of intentions and yet still make common mistakes. You don’t want to represent yourself as the best version of yourself that you were one day out of the year. You want to make sure that you are honest and realistic so that you get a true match and complement.
You do not want to have expectations that your match will somehow make you into the person you hope to be.
You have to recognize where you are at today! If it has been awhile since you have been working out everyday, then you don’t want to say you work out everyday in hopes that you will want to work out everyday with the new person in your life. Be honest with your current lifestyle.
We think we are communicating and often unintentionally attract matches that aren’t actually a true match.
We can be blinded in love and often think we are answering in a way that communicates how we really feel. We also want to make sure that we aren’t answering from how we were in past relationships. We want to answer from who we are today.
When you are dating to find someone to make your life better. You want to look at what you want your love relationship lifestyle to be. What do you want the lifestyle to be?
Kayla has the gift of being able to translate what we are trying to say into words that will make sense. There will be confusion and misinterpretation in dating, but we don’t want to lead with it. Reach out if you find that you need help.
“We want a complement a match, a real love experience and that takes knowing who you are, what you want to experience AND communicating that effectively.”
What is your love lifestyle desires?
Let us know in the comments 🙂