Inspiration should inspire!

Your inspiration needs to inspire you in love. You are worthy of the best. But the best isn’t usually what we think it is.

There is a trend that the inspirations are not inspiring. The inspirations need to help your beliefs in love. George Clooney isn’t going to be the dream you think it is.

Do not settle. However, reach for inspiration that you actually want and believe is possible for you. 

Kayla shares her inspiration for love changed from hot guy to the “nerdy-smart-gute” guy on Big Little Lies. He may not be the guy you would pick out of the room, but he was the most grounding, loyal, family oriented, dedicated and loving guy. Kayla was looking for the type of love lifestyle she wanted to experience in love.

Find the kind of inspiration that actually works.

Love inspiration should remind you of what you are looking for. 

Traci talked about how her inspiration wasn’t very inspiring. She looked up the Meyers Briggs Personality of Nash the character. Yes this actually exists, you can usually find a popular character on TV and the movies. In the written personality profiles she was able to see the character love lifestyle was not a good match. So that inspiration would never feel good.

As a literal person it is hard sometimes to notice how that inspiration would be in love. So go deeper in looking for your inspiration. Get creative. 

We want our inspiration based loosely on a character. With the new inspiration the belief changes and strengthens in hope. If all we have is beautiful pictures that we hope to get someday, we aren’t inspired by them, we are haunted by them knowing that our beliefs are telling us it probably won’t happen.

“Your inspiration shouldn’t send you into hiding. It should inspire action in love.”

What are some love inspirations for you?

Let us know in the comments 🙂